Nature does not care if you are built for the stage or not, it only welcomes you into its newness with issues to redefine.
Sissy mi, the payment has to be fixed before the end of tomorrow. And, while trying to resolve that, other expenses fall into the unsettled one and in the long run, you get yourself lost in the quest of figuring out the surrounding lacks, and then, you end up acquiring the name, Ben as in benevolent.
The other evident aspect is that you get caged in working towards complete success and you use that as a guide to shut people off. You form a triangular way of living that revolves around the house, office/market, and the place of worship. With tongues sealed and mouth shut, you make yourself the best buddy all because there is success to be attained.
Tragically, it is the way it is done not the way it should be done.
The route to thrive is an intentional one plus, there is so much to fix which sums up to every part being balanced(including how you relate with others). The grown-up phase has always been about striving for a tangible result from something done and the crucial part of this cycle is that the well-learned experiences received in the process can never be got with the bread earned. The wisdom gotten in the race of surviving the adulthood journey is to be held tightly.
Similarly, in the place of redefining issues, you get to toil with people and this incurs the act to embrace and forgive intolerable attitudes. Adulthood is not a scam as it shows to be, there are still ways to simplify the process that works. Ways like, love, tolerate, embrace people, stay positive, live within your means, do something you are interested in, and give in to rest when necessary.
