As regards the aforementioned description of the three locations which are, my abode, the next junction, and my seller’s store. I illustrated that it rained heavily in one, drizzled in one, and was sunny in the other. All of these locations had different seasons but all happened at the same time range. While for some days, it could alternate and for some other times, it could be an equal season.
Addressing this instance, I would tell that, there are periods in life that comes in different shades, time, and moments. The commonest one which is the tough time is what my analysis would start from.
It is unmistakable that, tough times occur generally because humans always have a thing or more to solve. And this specific time, always have a backup which evolves around the question ‘why’ (Check out the first part of the period that circulates for more clues on that).
Tough time occurs in different situations and one of them is the tough time of choosing.
I was just a secondary school student when my teacher spoke about scaling our preferences which includes, arranging our needs in order of priority. I tried practicing that in all of my decision-making processes, and cancellation became my partner in choosing. If the shoe was the first on my list, I could go back to erase it because I had a change of plan. Later on, when I kept increasing in the teenage cycle, I learned that I was not alone in the boat. We were so much that our boat almost capsized.
Aloft the fun side of the story, there was a fact I agreed with. Which is that human uncertainty is also caused by unsatisfied desires. Our choices waver and become hard to fulfill because our cravings get crumbled by another desire just in a few seconds. We find it hard to stand on a decision because we always want more ahead of the present. And seeking more is not bad but, the higher our desires, the higher difficulties we get in choosing.
In this episode of choice, we mostly embrace tough times ourselves. And we grasp this by being indecisive about our selections.
I must say kudos to the secondary school authorities who found diversification important for every student. Not every student sees that as a help but of course, it is. It saves the banker-to-be from digesting scientific terms. It saves a child artist from sliding into being a dentist. In a sentence, it illuminates the blind heart of a child.
If knowing was all we ever wanted, our choices would still waver but what makes the equation complete is to, know, understand, and accept.
Sometimes back, I asked myself why the blue color still stays to be my favorite, and now I got my reply which is that I love it, I understand that it’s what I wanted and I accept it as the only color that should stand to be my favorite.
Truly, there might be numerous wishes for every individual and excesses are not always advisable to be tolerated because, it paves the way for toughness but when you adopt the concept of knowing the motive behind your choice, with that, you can apply the code of understanding that it is still your pick and afterward, you can now live to see every of your choice as an acceptance.
In whatever area, be it in choice of clothing, relationship, career, business, course, and so on, save the tough period from being too hard by being certain of what your lead is and what your choice stands to be.
